Kink Coaching



I offer individual coaching sessions in English or German for kink newbies and the curious.

This coaching is for you if:

  • You want to go to a fetish club, but don’t know the etiquette or what to wear

  • You are curious about kink and want to see if it might be something for you

  • You want to try kink but are feeling nervous and unsure

  • You have dabbled in kink and want to take things a step further

  • You are kinky at home but would like to explore the wider kink scene

  • You know you are kinky and would like to find a play partner

  • You want to explore kink with your partner but aren’t sure how to go about it

  • You have so many questions about kink and nowhere to ask them (I hear ya…)

Whether you’re new to the scene, toying with the idea or simply curious, I can help you take your first steps in exploring your most obscene desires in a safe space.

Coaching sessions will be tailored to your specific needs and questions. You can expect a relaxed judgment-free atmosphere in which we will: 

  • Identify your wants, desires and boundaries

  • Address any concerns you have about getting started in kink

  • Discuss emotional and physical well-being when engaging in kink

  • Address how to avoid pitfalls when getting started

  • Discuss first steps to introducing kink in a partnership

  • Identify first steps to entering the wider kink scene

  • Get practical advice on how to top, bottom, dominate and submit

  • Get practical advice on the safe use of rope and basic toys

  • Answer all those questions you can’t ask anywhere else (yes, even the stupid ones)

If you are already poised to enter the kink scene I recommend the 5 session coaching package. You will likely find that you have more questions after your first kink encounters and want to integrate what you have experienced over a period of time. Kink can be an intense physical, emotional, mental and even spiritual experience and may just be the most rewarding thing you’ve ever done.